Whether you’re newly engaged or just want updated photos with your partner, a photo session is a great way to capture this moment in your relationship. If you’re unsure what the process looks like or how to prepare, this blog will walk you through a complete guide on what to expect from your photo session—engagement or couple session included.
Let’s break it down so you can feel confident, comfortable, and ready for a session that reflects who you are as a couple.
What to Expect Before the Session
1. Communication With Your Photographer
After booking your session, your photographer should reach out to finalize the details. Expect to talk about:
- Preferred locations
- Your vision or vibe (casual, editorial, cozy at-home, outdoorsy, etc.)
- What time of day works best (golden hour is usually ideal)
- Outfit recommendations
- Any must-have shots
This is your time to ask questions, share your ideas, or voice any concerns. Good communication makes a big difference.
2. Choosing a Location
Most photographers will offer suggestions based on the vibe you’re going for. Urban, beach, mountain, downtown, at-home—you name it. If you’re celebrating your engagement, you might choose a location with meaning, like where you had your first date or got engaged.
If your photographer offers location guides or has experience shooting in certain places, lean into their expertise. The goal is to choose a spot that feels like you.
3. Outfits: Keep It Simple, Be Yourself
Plan your outfits a few days in advance so you’re not scrambling. Stick to:
- Comfortable clothes that reflect your style
- Neutral or earth tones (they photograph well)
- Avoid busy patterns or large logos
- Bring a second outfit if you want two different looks
It’s also totally okay to dress up. Want to wear a long dress and heels in the middle of the desert? Go for it. Just bring comfy shoes for the walk there.
Need help planning what to wear? This style guide from Brides offers helpful outfit inspiration for engagement photos.
What Happens During the Session
1. A Laid-Back Flow
Most sessions last about an hour. The photographer will guide you through natural poses and prompts so you don’t have to worry about what to do with your hands. Expect a mix of movement, candid laughs, and close-up shots.
You’ll be walking, talking, hugging, maybe dancing a little. The idea is to interact with each other more than the camera. You’ll get direction when needed, but the focus is on capturing the connection between you two.
2. No Need to Be “Perfect”
You don’t have to be a model or know your angles. Your photographer will help you feel comfortable. The best photos usually come from moments when you’re relaxed, not overly posed.
If something feels awkward, say so! Your photographer can pivot and try a different approach. Trust their process—they’re trained to spot great light, flattering angles, and authentic emotion.
After the Session: What to Expect
1. Sneak Peeks & Turnaround Time
Many photographers send sneak peeks within a few days. Full galleries are usually delivered within 2–4 weeks, depending on the season.
Ask about turnaround time ahead of time so you’re not left wondering.
2. How You’ll Receive Your Photos
Most photographers deliver digital galleries where you can download high-res images, share with family and friends, and order prints. Some may offer photo albums or print packages too.
Make sure to download and back up your images once you receive them. Cloud storage and external drives are a good idea.
Extra Tips for Engagement Sessions
If this is your engagement session, you may want to coordinate the timing so you have the photos in time for your save-the-dates or wedding website. Be sure to share your wedding date with your photographer so they can guide you on scheduling.
Engagement sessions are also a great way to get to know your photographer before the big day. You’ll feel more comfortable with them, and they’ll learn how you interact together, which makes wedding day portraits smoother.
Bonus: Think About How You’ll Use Your Photos
Your photos can be used for:
- Save the dates
- Wedding websites
- Guest books
- Wall art for your home
- Social media announcements
Talk to your photographer if you have specific uses in mind—they can make sure you get the shots you need.
FAQs
1. What’s the best time of day for a photo session?
Golden hour—about an hour after sunrise or before sunset—offers soft, flattering light. It’s ideal for outdoor sessions, but photographers can also work with midday light if needed.
2. Can we bring props or pets to the session?
Absolutely! Bring anything meaningful to your relationship. Pets are welcome too—just give your photographer a heads-up so they can plan accordingly.
3. What if we feel awkward in front of the camera?
Totally normal! Most couples start off that way. Your photographer will use prompts and directions to help you relax. Within a few minutes, it usually feels more like hanging out than being in a photoshoot.
